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Ariana Grande’s comeback tour is already carrying more drama than expected.
The singer opened her ‘Eternal Sunshine’ tour in Oakland, California, on June 6. But just days into her long-awaited return to the stage, reports claimed she had quietly split from her ‘Wicked’ co-star Ethan Slater months earlier.
Now, people close to Grande are reportedly pointing to what they see as a “troubling pattern” in her personal life.
According to insiders, the issue is not only the breakup. It is the way Grande allegedly moves between intense relationships and equally intense career chapters.
Grande And Slater Reportedly Split Months Ago
Grande and Slater met while filming the two-part ‘Wicked’ adaptation, where she plays Glinda and he plays Boq.
Their romance drew heavy attention from the start because both were married when production was underway. Grande later separated from Dalton Gomez, while Slater filed for divorce from Lilly Jay after his relationship with Grande became public. Because of that timing, the relationship was quickly hit with affair allegations, which Grande has denied.
According to insiders cited by the Daily Mail, Grande and Slater did not break up suddenly. They reportedly went their separate ways several months ago after nearly three years together. Fans had already noticed that the two had not been seen together publicly for some time.
The split was reportedly amicable. One source claimed Slater had hoped the relationship would continue, but Grande “followed her own instincts” and shifted her attention back to work.
Insiders Claim A Familiar Pattern Is Emerging
People close to Grande reportedly believe this breakup fits into a larger rhythm they have seen before.
“Ariana and relationships have always been a bit of a complicated mix,” one insider told the Daily Mail. “She tends to fall hard and fast, and when she does, it’s all-consuming.”
The source claimed Grande often throws herself fully into a relationship until a major career moment pulls her focus somewhere else.
“The person she’s with gets her full attention, and it’s easy to get swept up in that,” the insider said. “But then something shifts. That’s a pattern people around her have seen play out more than once.”
That does not prove anything about what happened with Slater. But it does show how the breakup is being framed by some people around the singer: less as one isolated split and more as part of a cycle.
Her Career Pivot Has Been Intense
For much of the past three years, Grande’s life revolved around ‘Wicked.’ She changed her look for the role, stepped back from regular music releases, and devoted herself to bringing Glinda to the screen.
Once the promotional push around ‘Wicked: For Good’ began to settle, Grande pivoted quickly.
In August 2025, she announced the ‘Eternal Sunshine’ tour, her first major run of shows since 2019. The schedule includes 40 dates across North America and Europe, including a major stretch at London’s O2 Arena. The tour supports her 2024 album ‘Eternal Sunshine’ and her upcoming record ‘Petal,’ which is due July 31.
Reports have played down speculation that ‘Petal’ is centered on Slater or their breakup. Still, the timing has made fans connect the split to Grande’s broader emotional and professional reset.
Health Concerns Follow Her Tour Return
Grande’s return to touring has also sparked concern among some fans and people close to her.
During the ‘Wicked’ press tour, reports claimed loved ones worried she was “not in a healthy place” and feeling weighed down by pressure. Friends and family are also said to remain mindful of Grande’s anxiety and PTSD linked to the 2017 Manchester Arena bombing.
One source claimed Grande has spent years caring for others while not giving herself enough space to slow down. Another insider suggested some people in her orbit worry she may have “taken on too much” with the tour schedule. Grande is reportedly involved in nearly every part of the production, which may make it harder for her to step back.
Online concern has also intensified since the tour began, with fans commenting on her stage presence and appearance. Grande has previously criticized public commentary about bodies, calling that kind of scrutiny dangerous. In a 2024 interview, she said she has felt like “a specimen in a petri dish” since she was a teenager. That history makes the latest reaction even more complicated.
Grande is back on stage, back in headlines, and reportedly newly single. For supporters, the hope is simple: that she can move through this tour without being swallowed by the same pressure that has followed so many of her past eras.
For insiders, the fear is that once the tour ends, she may move straight into the next all-consuming chapter before taking time to breathe.
